To The End Salon

What's it like being in a room full of queers talking about divorce and romantic breakups?

Intimate. Real. Insightful. Sometimes hilarious.

Let’s Talk About It

I host an online salon full of queers of all stripes who join me to discuss the joys and horrors of divorce. It’s not therapy. We are detailing our experiences, offering each other resources and trying to find levity while dealing with the agony.

Any given salon will vacillate between grief, exhaustion and tears mixed with Tik Tok jokes, nods of agreement, heart emojis and exclamations of gratitude for queer support.


About morty

I’m a trans and queer person who went through a divorce in 2020. I work as a psychotherapist, divorce coach and college instructor. Since my own divorce I have made it a priority to open up more space for queer divorce narratives to exist in the open.

Online Salons

Join from anywhere. Online salons are ongoing and accessible to queer people everywhere. Details are shared via the newsletter. Sign up to get notified of upcoming dates.

In-Person Salons

Upcoming in-person salons are coming soon!

General Information


✔️ Free to attend, always


✔️ You can be anonymous if you want


✔️ Share your experience without judgment


✔️ Ask questions to peers going through similar stuff


✔️ Come and go as you need


Guidelines for Every Salon


✔️ Speak from your experience


✔️ Leave room for others to speak


✔️ No ableist, racist, classist remarks


✔️ No shaming other people


✔️ Don’t direct judgement on another attendee


The SALON Experience

Share as much, or as little, as you want

The salon has taught me that queers should not be going through the trials of divorce and romantic breakups alone. We should be examining the richness of experience and learning from each other through these relational trials.

To the End Salon is ultimately a space to witness and support queer community.

Join us!

“The salon saved me in so many ways, thank you Morty!”

“Wow, I can’t believe a space like this exists! It’s been so healing to be in community as I go through my divorce process.”

“Morty, thank you for all the work you do to support our community, especially those of us hurt by divorce. You are trailblazing such an important pathway!”